When you are snuggling with your partner and can’t keep your fingers to yourself in that intense moment, which leads to foreplays and sex, these tips are for those moments and misters who enjoy using their fingers.

It doesn’t matter whether you are dating your partner or are married to her; hanky-panky is a part of the relationship. Master these finger techniques for the hands-on pleasure your partner won’t refuse. Naturally, women are tuned to reach that point of orgasm late as compared to men, and this is when foreplay comes to rescue. You need to learn how you use your fingers to the best.

Start by fixing your mindset towards the mechanics of the lady garden

The vagina is indeed a complicated part of the female anatomy, but you shouldn’t see it as a problem to solve. How about gently exploring it, learn yourself? You can do it using various ways, like going fast and slow while manually stimulating and rubbing in the vicinity. Take your time to touch everywhere to see yourself what tinkers her by noticing her body movement, listening to her moans, and seeing her expressions. If you feel lost, ask her questions like “How does it feel here, how do you like my fingers here, etc.” She will end up giving you hints and directions.

If you are now convinced of the fact that the vagina is no more complicated anatomy for you to explore, let’s move on to the actual technique and techs to sharpen your finger-using skills.

Finger-Using Techs & Techniques

Start Simple

Begin with over the panty by softly rubbing her. Use your index or middle finger to pinpoint stimulation on her clitoris. Circle your fingertip around and talk dirty while you also kiss her on the upper body. All of these together is going to pave the way for her arousal.

All-inclusive process

As we said above to explore her upper body kissing her occasionally, for the magic to work, you have to focus as much as on kissing, licking, and sucking on her neck, breasts, and nipples as you are attentive towards your finger. Put both of your hands to work as the prominent hand is on a fingering mission, use your other hand to rub her back, touch her hips, or to fondle her breasts for building a greater connection. These small little details make finger tech an inclusive process which you need to learn if you want to master the art.

Marching Inside

Massaging her vagina and rubbing on her clitoris should naturally lubricate her and invite your finger to venture in. However, if it doesn’t, even when your partner already seems to be aroused enough, use any good quality lube to slip or glide in your fingers effortlessly. With the lube or the natural viscosity on your fingers should help you in performing this finger-use tech better. Please note that whether she is wet or not doesn’t decide her sexual excitement.

Find your Rhythm

Continuously performing fingers and your partner’s body will automatically sync to match the rhythm if you observe her reactions. Make sure not to thrust or jam her vagina with your fingers as you are searching for a lost treasure. The best thing about fingers-act is that you can give her multi-sensory stimulation that combines stroking inside with your finger in a rhythm and massaging her vagina and clit using your other fingers like thumb outside. Don’t hesitate to ask her whether faster or slower is sexier rather than making her uncomfortable.

Build the surprise and excitement inside-out

Intermittently you can glide your fingers in and then come back to clitoris and continue doing the same while gently pressing, rubbing, and stroking her with your fingers. Watch closely what she likes, if her body reacts more while teasing her clitoris, spend more time on it, and then go back in again. Leave her guessing what you would do next when you are touching her inside and out using your fingers. She may even end up begging for more in this playful act of fingers.

Step-up the ladder!

You can take your finger game to the notch by using a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris and to hit on her g-spot for arousal especially. Add this into your bedroom toys to enhance your performance, fun, and pleasure while you master this finger-use tech.

Using the above finger-using tips and the game, not only can you spice up your next foreplay session, but you can drive her to reach orgasm easily every time. Go for oral sex and intercourse after this as you have given her an incredible hands-on pleasure using just fingers.