Well, Mister, we understand just like any other man, you have your need for sex. But sometimes it happens, that you end up ejaculating sooner than you intended too, making the entire episode pretty dampening for you and your lady! After all, it feels good to last long. Also, if intercourse is the only way your lady gets an orgasm, then be pretty sure, premature ejaculation or PE, is for sure a game spoiler for her in bed!
You would be surprised to know, one out of every three men in the US, between ages 18 and 59, suffer from premature ejaculation. Although it is treatable through behaviour techniques, medications, and counselling, why not try a simpler way, of just changing your usual sex position? Yes, there are many sex positions that can reduce sensations for you, thereby prolonging the sessions. Not only that, a new and unique position would be exciting in itself, thus adding some spice to your sex life!
1. Woman on top:
Well, give your women the power to control the movement, space everything. You lie down on your back while she straddles herself on to you. She can sit up straight or lean a little forward and put the weight of her body on her arms. From here on she can start moving at the pace that’s comfortable for both of you. If you feel you are going to ejaculate soon, you can ask her to lean forward, which makes the penetration less, thereby reducing sensation for you, making you last longer.
2. Side by side:
Here you and your partner lie down on your sides while facing each other. This position doesn’t offer a deep penetration, thereby helping you to last longer. Your pelvis should be much below hers with her top leg wrapped around your waist. You can help her guide your penis into her vagina, which will be requiring some hip manoeuvring efforts from both the partners, but once you are inside, you are good to go. At this point, you can ask your partner to pull in closer, so that there is enough space for your penis to go in and out. Since you are facing each other, this position gives you an extra advantage of communication as well, in which you can control your movements which will help you slow down PE.
3 Bend and Press:
Make your partner lie down on her back while she faces you. Lift her legs and place it against your chest. Enter her. This position lets your lady take control to some extent since if she finds things going too fast, she can control the pace with her feet, helping the moment last longer for both of you. Also in this position at least her hands are free, so you might get some extra perks as well.
4. Spooning:
You can rest assured, this position is sure going to give you some super intimate moments. In this, make your partner lie on her side, and you lie behind her, following her shape like a spoon. Enter her from behind and maintain a rhythm that is comfortable for both of you. Since this position allows for control and depth of penetration for both the partners, it makes sex lasts longer, giving you more time to reach orgasm. Many love this low-intensity form of sex which allows you plenty of chances to cuddle and caress your partner as well!
5. Chair seat position
In this position deep penetration is not possible, thereby helping you last longer. Take a steady chair or sofa and sit on it. Gently lower your partner onto your lap, facing away from you and enter her. You can use your hands to move her up and down to control the pace. This position is sensuous and adventurous while being slow on your sensations, making things last longer for you and fun for her!
